Marriage Repair after an Affair“I was completely blindsided and devastated after finding out my husband had an affair. I didn’t know how our marriage could survive or if I even wanted it to.”-Sheila
Sheila* was a client of mine. She came to me, like many others I've treated, to deal with her grief after her husband's infidelity, and to see if this marriage could survive. I worked with Sheila and her husband Dan* for many months. Sheila learned how to identify her feelings and work through them. Dan, who wanted to save his marriage, learned what he needed to do to help build the trust back in order to turn their marriage around. At the last session they thanked me for my helped and walked out with a marriage that was happier, healthier, and thriving. While closing out their file I looked back at my notes and noticed something interesting. My work with them felt similar to other couples who came to me with the same problem: coping with the devastation of infidelity. I noticed I was using the same methods and exercises for Sheila and Dan as I had for several other couples that came to my office with this very same issue. It was at this point I decided to combine and condense my techniques and put them together in a way that others could be helped.
Hello, my name is Melanie Cohn and I am a marriage counselor. I have been working with couples for more than 16 years and I have helped most of the couples who walked in my door not only survive an affair, but thrive after working through it. I've found that most marriage recoveries go through the same process. After realizing that I was using the same techniques over and over, I decided to developed a 5 step approach that deals with every stage of finding out this devastating news and working through it. I am offering you the same steps and advice in this ebook, so you can work the infidelity and turn your marriage around.
There are many good books out there about infidelity and helping you understand your feelings. But I've found they fall short in helping people work through the ordeal and transition into a better marriage.
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If you are facing the daunting task of repairing your relationship after an affair, you need Marriage Repair after an Affair. While you're in this emotional tornado, it may seem impossible to repair your marriage, and you may not be sure you want to. But if you take the chance, you may see your relationship not only recover, but blossom after this devastating event. For just $9.99, you will receive a five step guide that will help you understand your feelings, why cheating occurs, and what it takes to build back your marriage, and how to look out for and deal with obstacles in your path.
“I found out about her affair on New Year’s Eve. It wasn’t even my wife who told me. We were celebrating with several couples and I thought we were having a great time. All of the sudden my best friend pulled me aside and told me he couldn’t take the guilt of knowing that my wife had cheated on me. With an extremely guilty look on his face he proceeded to tell me how my wife cheated on me and it had lasted for almost a year. I was stunned by the news. I also felt humiliated. Everyone in the room knew about her infidelity but me. “ -Ray Does this story sound similar to you? Your name and situation may be different... But one thing remains the same...The path to recovering from infidelity is very, very similar amongst couples. For just $9.99 with my ebook,
You don’t have to complete a ton of confusing and long exercises or a million worksheets to repair your marriage.
The worksheets I provide you are simple, easy, and take very little time to complete. And there are worksheets for both the “betrayed” and the “betrayer”
This is an easy to use five step system to help you work through the overwhelming issues that come with uncovering infidelity in your marriage.
"Hi, I really liked reading your book... And I don't do reading that often... I should have read this book last year.. Thank you"
Working with Melanie has been a life changing
experience.
I have learned to look at many aspects of my
life in new and healthier ways. The changes are more
widespread than I would have ever imagined. Melanie
introduced me to the tools that I needed to take care
of my emotional health and supported me patiently as I learned to use them.-Mark
Step 1 will help you understand how finding out about your spouse cheating is like dealing with a tornado. One minute everything appears fine and orderly and the next minute a cyclone comes in and knocks your marital house to the ground, leaving it in ruins. You will learn that certain feelings are typical and begin to distinguish if yours are normal or becoming unhealthy. Step 2 discusses rebuilding your "marital house". You will learn what strategies you and the betrayer need to do to start building back the trust in your relationship. Step 3 is all about checking the foundation of your marriage. Learning how to identify the underlying issues in your relationship that contributed to the problems in the first place is crucial. Step 4 talks about things that may be causing you or your spouse to resist making improvements and doing what needs to be done to get your marriage back on track. And in Step 5 I discuss "loving your new house". This means recognizing that while your marriage may be different than what you knew it to be, it can be even better and more fulfilling than you ever expected. So for just $9.99 what are you waiting for? Don't suffer another minute!
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"Working with Melanie has been a life changing
experience. When I began counseling, Melanie’s
unwavering faith in my ability to heal gave me the
strength to continue moving forward until I was able
to hold that faith for myself."
"Melanie
introduced me to the tools that I needed to take care
of my emotional health and supported me patiently as I
learned to use them. The changes are more
widespread than I would have ever imagined."
Hi, I really liked reading your book... And I don't do reading that often... I should have read this book last year.. Thank you
"I hope you know how highly I value your skills and support.
I think that you are a very gifted therapist and I hope you realize how much of an impact you have had
on the way I view myself and the world."
Thank you for being there for her. The changes in her have a lot to do with your attention and willingness to really listen to her.
She was reaching and you were there to help her look deeper into herself- you made her feel so worth it. For that I will always hold
you in high regard, and will never forget you. Thank you again.